heres an update:
for those of you that have followed this thread: I think i've finally found the culprit in the misbehaving bike!
without repeating symptoms and whats been changed etc etc here goes:
The float height!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
of the endless list of things changed swapped the only thing i didnt check was the float height!

therefore much too much petrol sloshing around in the f/bowl chamber which would account for the bike going rough when slowing down, i.e. town, after a blast where the bike would be running on main jets..... and always on the same cylinder. Having swapped/replaced all things electrical (the lot!) that really does only leave one thing doesnt it?
well, we live and learn so maybe this might help someone in the same predicament.
I feel like a right prat
mark